Senseless Thoughts

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May 2016

Big Mr. Sushi


Who doesn’t love sushi? If there is one food I so crave for, that is SUSHI! But it is never cheap. NEVER! They were almost always sold per piece in restaurants with jaw-dropping prices.

I had lunch at 3pm. Kenny and I planned to watch a movie in the evening, we were not hungry but we want to at least chew something so our tummy won’t complain in the middle of watching The Big Short.

So he brought me to Sushi Burrito, a sushi shop that serves incredibly large portions of sushis and salads for a good price. Imagine half of the sushi as big as three fourths of your palm (it depends how big your palm is by the way)! And just half of it already made me burp so loud. 😂

Thumbs up!

– K


Perks of Dating an Older Dude

Let me get straight to the point. Age doesn’t matter they say… and while it doesn’t, somehow… IT DOES (not in a negative connotation though).

I’ve been into relationships with guys a bit younger than me, with the same age as mine, and with those who are a bit older… but this time I tried dating a guy a decade older than me.

1. You will be treated as a baby.
Girls have their real soft side and sometimes wanted “some” care and attention which you can get from an older dude every single time you are together compared when you are currently dating a guy younger than you in which you are actually the more matured one and you have to “baby” him instead.

2. And talking about maturity…
He knows what you are up to, what you need, what you want, what you mean to say, what you think, what you’ve experienced, what you might ask for someday… you know, part of the “been-there-done-that” thing.

3. You are with a good and smart company.
Since he is quite advanced with age, he’s definitely done a lot of things and went through tons of mistakes. Experience wise, he has it. He knows a lot… A LOT. There’s much to learn from him about everything, life, love, places, politics… anything. I swear.

4. He is absolutely sincere and open with his emotions.
When he says it, he means it. He’s not the type of guy who would go around the bush and please you with words. He tells you what he feels, he wants you, he’s crazy for you, especially when he’s serious about you. He tells you when he’s  mad, angry or disappointed, no need to ask. And he still keeps his cool (because he probably took anger management thingy 😂 ) and he doesn’t keep his grudges for too long. Everything must be talked about at once.

5. You have a father, a brother, a drinking buddy, a teacher, a bestfriend in one body.
Yes, he does the “sermon” when you did something wrong and he protects you like a brother would do. When you’re down and sad, expect either a cuddle or a bottle of beer (whichever you prefer). He tells you things you don’t want to learn but you will because you have no choice and he will watch over you. And the best thing? You can open up just anything. He will absolutely listen to you.

6. Futuristic.
You want someone who thinks about tomorrow but doesn’t worry about tomorrow? Get an older dude. Savings, investments, plans, business, he knows it, he has it. And when you think about settling down, he’s the guy. He probably had the time of his single life and he would definitely want a family for himself. So stick to him and if he is damn serious about you, he’ll put a ring on it.

So age doesn’t matter (who cares if he’s a decade older?) but somehow it does… When you think about it, older dudes have all that you want and all that you need (attention, care, learnings, security, assurance, etc.) so why not go for someone who makes you feel you can have everything without having to worry, right? Just choose the right guy and don’t go for just anyone out there.


This experience that I took is one of those I consider good risks. Sometimes, you have to get out of your shell and explore the world and do things you haven’t done. 😁 ‘Bout you?

– K

When You See It


What do you see in this picture?

If you’ll ask me, I see LIFE playing. By the time you step on the pedals, time ticks and your life starts moving. If you stop because you are tired or you think you’re going nowhere, or you think you’re going the wrong way, the clock never stops ticking but you’ll be stuck from where you stopped. You can always go back to the place where you started. But the roads you passed before won’t change. It would be easy going back, hassle free, and you perfectly know the way. But by the time you reached that old place where you began, everyone you met there is gone, the place is the same but only the memories were left.

So whenever you get tired of moving and stepping on the pedals, stop for just one moment, breathe, rest for a while, and get challenged by the next roads awaiting you ahead. Because in front of you, there are more people to meet, new places to see, new adventure to behold and new memories to make. Everything ahead can’t be predicted but that’s how our life is. So we better look forward and see what lies a few blocks away, get excited and whenever humps trick us and get us outbalanced, hold tight and step harder. Just fight. The humps and rocks would soon end. Patience and trust in yourself is needed during these times. Don’t lose them. And then maybe… just maybe… you’ll bump into someone who would make your ride a more meaningful one and join you with the journey you’ve been taking.

So, let me ask you… what do you see?

– K

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